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30+ [Unique But Cool] Girl Names that Start with Y
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "Y" names for girls. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter Y, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "Y" name that's even the slightest bit modern...
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30 [Unusual But Cool] Girl Names that Start with Z
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "Z" names for girls. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter Z, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "Z" name that's even the slightest bit modern...
40 Wonderful Girl Names that Start with W
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "W" names for girls. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter W, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "W" name that's even the slightest bit modern...
35+ Very Awesome “V” Girl Names
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girl names that start with V. If you’re looking for a stunning girls' name starting with the letter V, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "V" name that's even the slightest...
55+ Trendy and Timeless T Names for Girls
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girl names that start with "T". If you’re looking for a head-turning girls' name starting with the letter T, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "T" name that's even the...
75+ Seriously Sweet Girl Names that Start with S
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "S" girl names. If you’re looking for a stunning girls' name starting with the letter S, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "S" name that's even the slightest bit modern and...
50+ Pretty Perfect “P” Girl Names
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girl names that start with P. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter P, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "P" name that's even the slightest...
30+ Outstanding Girl Names that Start with O
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "O" girl names. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter O, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "O" name that's even the slightest bit modern and...
60+ Amazing Girl Names that Start With N
AHEAD: The ultimate list of N names for baby girls. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter N, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "N" name that's even the slightest bit...
100+ Magnificent Girl Names that Start with M
AHEAD: The ultimate list of M names for girls. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter M, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "M" name that's even the slightest bit modern...
50 Incredible Girl Names Starting with I
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girls' names that start with I If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter I, you’re in the right place! Below, I've rounded up every single "I" name that's even the slightest...
70 Incredible H Names for Girls
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girls' names that start with H There's no doubt about it... H names are HOT right now! And if you're looking for the perfect one, you're in the right place. Below, I've rounded up every single H name...
50 Genuinely Great G Names for Girls
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girls' names with G as the first letter. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter G, you’re in the right place! Perhaps you’re planning to honor a family member whose name...
40 Freakin’ Fabulous F Names for Girls
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girls' names that start with F If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter F, you’re in the right place! Perhaps you’re planning to honor a family member whose name begins (or...
350+ Totally Charming Southern Girl Names
AHEAD: The absolute motherload of baby name ideas for your southern belle. Whether you’re looking for a country-sounding name, an old southern name with classic charm, or a modern moniker that’s sweet as pie, you’re in the right...
45 Dreamy Girl Names Beginning with D
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girl names starting with D. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter D, you’re in the right place! Perhaps you’re planning to honor a family member whose name begins (or...
Is the Graco DuoGlider Safe for Sleep?
See what the evidence says about letting your baby sleep in a DuoGlider. If you’re confused about whether sleeping in a Graco DuoGlider is safe for your baby, you are far from alone. You’ve probably heard that babies shouldn’t...
60 Completely Cute Baby Girl Names Starting with C
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "C" girl names. If you're looking for a beautiful girl's name starting with the letter C, you're in the right place! Get excited because I'm about to save you a whole lot of time scouring the internet...
65+ Knockout Girl Names Starting with K
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "K" girl names. If you're looking for a beautiful girl's name starting with the letter K, you're in the right place! Get excited because I'm about to save you a whole lot of time scouring the internet...
Are Pacifiers Safe for Sleep? Everything You Need to Know
AHEAD: Everything you need to know about letting your baby sleep with a pacifier. Pacifier, paci, binky, soother, nuk, dummy... whatever you call these small rubber miracles, chances are, your baby is a fan. But are they a safety...
50 Amazing Girl Names that Start with J
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "J" girl names. If you're looking for a beautiful girl's name starting with the letter J, you're in the right place! Get excited because I'm about to save you a whole lot of time scouring the internet...
60 Exceptional Girl Names that Start with E
AHEAD: The ultimate list of "E" girl names. If you're looking for a beautiful girl's name starting with the letter E, you're in the right place! There are tons of exquisite names for girls that start with the letter E!Below, I’ve...
Can My Baby Sleep in a Bouncer—or is that a SIDS Risk?
AHEAD: What the scientific evidence says about the safety of letting your baby sleep (and nap) in a bouncer. If you're here reading this article, you probably have at least an inkling that bouncers are not safe for infant sleep....
40 Ravishing Girl Names that Start with R
AHEAD: The ultimate list of R Girl Names. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter R, you’re in the right place! Perhaps you’re planning to honor a family member whose name begins (or began) with the...
40 Truly Beautiful Girl Names that Start with B
AHEAD: The ultimate list of B girls' names. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter B, you’re in the right place!After scouring the internet for names that start with the letter B, I've got good news...
50 Completely Lovable L Names for Girls
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girl names starting with L. If you’re looking for a beautiful girls' name starting with the letter L, you’re in the right place! Perhaps you’re planning to honor a family member whose name begins (or...
135+ Absolutely Awesome Girl Names that Start with A
AHEAD: The ultimate list of girl names with A as the first letter. If you're looking for a beautiful girl's name starting with the letter A, you're in the right place! Perhaps you're planning to honor a family member whose name...
300+ Precious Middle names for Penelope
Choosing the perfect middle name for Penelope... I couldn't believe my ears when Kourtney Kardashian named her daughter Penelope. Since then, I must admit, the name has really grown on me! And I'm not the only one... Ever since...
265 Enchanted Middle Names for Ella
Choosing the perfect middle name for Ella... If you've chosen the name Ella for your daughter, congrats... you've picked a gorgeous feminine name with a magical and enchanted meaning. Ella is currently the 15th most popular name...
175 Gorgeous Two Syllable Girl Names
AHEAD: The ultimate list of double-syllable girls' names and their meanings. On the hunt for a beautiful two syllable girl's name that sounds cool but isn’t over-done? You're in the right place! Below, you'll find a huge list of...
265 Amazing Middle Names for Jackson
Choosing the perfect middle name for Jackson... If you've chosen the name Jackson for your son, congrats... you've picked a strong two-syllable name! Originally a last name, the name Jackson means "son of Jack" or "son of John"....
500 Amazing Middle Names for Violet
AHEAD: The ultimate list of middle names that go with the first name Violet. If you've chosen the name Violet for your daughter, congrats... you've 'picked' a gorgeous nature name that's both botanical and colorful. Violet is...
14 Best Sleep Sacks for Toddlers
AHEAD: The ultimate guide to toddler sleep sacks. If you're looking for the best wearable blankets for toddlers between the ages of 1 and 4, you're in the right place!There may be affiliate links in this post. Read this disclosure...
9 Best Mold-Free Bath Toys for 1-Year-Olds
AHEAD: The coolest bath toys for one-year-olds that won't get moldy and gross. Are you looking for safe tub toys for a 1-year-old that won't accumulate mold inside? If your goal is to to make bath time more fun, you're in the right...
Are Supplemental Bassinet Mattresses a SIDS Risk?
AHEAD: Everything you need to know about whether to buy a mattress for a bassinet. Figuring out where your baby will sleep can be tricky. You've probably got lots of questions... Do all bassinets come with mattresses—or do you need...
44 Absurdly Cool Avocado Gifts
AHEAD: Novelty gifts for avocado lovers that will guac their world. 🥑 Are you shopping for a cool present for an avocado lover? In case you couldn't tell by my logo, I happen to be one myself. If something comes in a cute avocado...
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77 Handsome Names for Rainbow Babies [Boys Edition]
AHEAD: The ultimate list of rainbow baby names for boys. A rainbow baby brings hope and happiness after a storm—the loss of another baby. For many families, naming their rainbow baby is just as much about healing from tragedy as...
215 Gorgeous Middle Names for Jade
Are you ready for an incredible list of beautiful middle names for Jade? If you've decided to name your daughter Jade, congratulations on picking a stunning 1-syllable name with an earthy meaning. Jade is a beautiful green mineral...
How Many Swaddles Do I Need — and Which Ones are Best?
AHEAD: The ultimate guide to choosing which swaddles to get for your baby—and how many! Babies love to be wrapped up like a burrito. It makes them feel safe and secure (and also contains their startle reflex). But which ones should...
Help! My Baby Wants their Hands Out of the Swaddle
AHEAD: Six simple tips for babies who prefer having their hands free If you think that your baby wants their hands out of the swaddle and you're trying to figure out how to (safely) get some sleep, you're in the right place!...
6 Best Portable Bassinets
AHEAD: The ultimate guide to choosing a portable bassinet. Are you preparing to welcome your new baby and looking for the perfect portable bassinet? Whether you need a bassinet to take on trips, or simply move from room to room,...
195 Cool Middle Names for Mia
The ultimate list of middle name ideas for the first name Mia! If you've decided to name your baby girl Mia, congratulations on picking a great 3-letter modern name that ends in the letter A. Mia means "beloved" and is currently...
The Ultimate List of Middle Names for Olivia
Are you ready for the mother load of amazing middle names for Olivia? If you've decided to name your baby girl Olivia, congratulations on picking a beautiful 3-syllable name with a botanical meaning. Olivia means olive tree, which...
Bassinet vs Crib: The Ultimate Guide to Help You Decide
How to pick between a bassinet and a crib for your new baby Are you considering skipping the traditional bassinet and starting your baby in a crib right from the get go? Whether you're a minimalist, a pragmatist, living in a small...
Are Dreamland Baby’s Weighted Sleep Sacks Safe?
Wondering if weighted sleep garments are a SIDS risk? Here's what we know and what we don't... In May of 2020, a mom appeared on Shark Tank with a product she believed was the solution to helping babies sleep through the night....
10 Pregnancy Gifts for First Time Moms You Haven’t Thought Of
Looking for an amazing gift to give a first time mom? The holidays are upon us, and if you're wondering what to get your pregnant wife, partner, daughter, friend, (or self), you're in the right place! From practical presents to...
60 Modern Nonbinary Names
Ahead: Gender neutral + nonbinary baby names that are actually cool. If you're looking for a list of modern gender neutral or nonbinary names, you're in the right place. Arguably, the best nonbinary names are those that are...
How to Keep a Baby Warm at Night (Evidence-Based Guide)
A complete guide to safely keeping your baby warm at night without blankets Baby, it's cold outside... ...but is it cold inside? The very first thing to know about keeping a baby warm at night is that you should dress them for...
125+ Edgy Names for your Baby Boy or Girl
Choosing a badass name for your little human... If you're looking for a cool but unexpected baby name for a boy or girl, you're in the right place. All of the edgy names on this list are bold and ahead of the curve, without being...
Can a Newborn Sleep in a Pack N Play?
Is it safe for your new baby to sleep in a playard instead of a bassinet? Whether you're considering using a Pack N Play as your newborn's primary bed or you're wondering if a playard is a safe travel crib for a young baby, you're...
Baby vs Crib: Common Issues and How to Fix Them
Ahead: What the evidence says about preventing crib injuries. When babies become mobile, it's extremely common for them to hit their heads on the crib, stick their limbs through the slats, and even start chewing on the rails....
Pack N Play Weight Limits: When To Stop Using Your Playard
Ahead: The weight limits of all the most popular playard models Whether you're looking to buy a Pack N Play with the greatest longevity, or you're wondering when to stop using the one you already own, you're in the right place....
How to Clean a Pack N Play Mat …Without Ruining It!
Ahead: A step-by-step guide to safely washing a Pack N Play mattress. I’ve got bad news for you: Most of the Pack N Play cleaning hacks you’ve seen online should be avoided. Cleaning your Pack N Play mattress correctly isn't just a...
Pack N Play Mattress 101: The Evidence-Based Safety Guide
Ahead: Everything you need to know about Pack N Play mattresses to keep your baby safe. Pack N Play mattress pads are notoriously thin. In fact, they're less than one inch thick. If you're wondering whether it's safe to swap out a...
233 Modern Middle Names for Asher
Let's find you the perfect middle name for Asher... If you’ve decided to name your baby boy Asher, congratulations on picking a modern name that will stand the test of time. Asher means "happy" or "blessed" or "ash tree dweller" and is currently...
88 Cool French Boy Names (with Meanings and Middle Name Ideas)
Choosing a French name for your baby boy... On the hunt for an amazing French boy's name that's cool in the United States? 🇫🇷 Easier said than done! There are lots of popular French boy names that are extremely popular in France...
100+ Space Names for Babies that are Actually Cool
AHEAD: The ultimate list of out-of-this-world space baby names. If you're looking for a quirky but not totally alien baby name, you're in the right place. Because let's be honest: Luna is cool but it's wayy too popular right now....
“My Baby Hates the Bath!” (16 Tricks to Fix this Today)
Why your baby hates the bath and how to get them to start LOVING it! Bath time can mean a lot of crying — it can also be something you and your baby both enjoy. In this post, you'll find 16 tips (that really work!) for keeping babies aged newborn...
195 Modern Middle Names for Liam
Choosing the perfect middle name for Liam... If you’ve decided to name your baby boy Liam, congratulations on picking a strong (but totally adorable) Irish name. Liam means “protector” and is currently the #1 most popular baby boy’s name in the...
135 Badass Middle Names for Maverick
Choosing the perfect middle name for Maverick... If you’ve decided to name your baby boy Maverick, congratulations on picking a seriously cool name! Maverick means “independent-minded person” and is the 49th most popular baby boy’s name in the...
175 Modern Middle Names for Silas
Choosing the perfect middle name for Silas... If you’ve decided to name your baby boy Silas, congratulations on picking a masculine organic name. Silas means “man of the forest” and is the 100th most popular baby boy’s name in the U.S., according...
3 Syllable Boy Names that are Modern & Masculine
Let's find the perfect three syllable name for your baby boy... On the hunt for a modern boy's name that sounds cool but isn't over-done? Your options for three syllable names aren't as plentiful as two or one syllable names, but I've rounded up...
113 Two Syllable Boy Names for Modern Little Dudes
Let's find the perfect 2 syllable name for your baby boy... On the hunt for a modern boy's name that sounds cool but isn't over-done? This list of two syllable boy names is just what you're looking for! Table of Contents Trendy Two...
When and How to Stop Swaddling: The Ultimate Guide
Ahead: An evidence-based guide about when to stop swaddling and how to transition from swaddling. Plus: when to worry and when it's safe to relax. If your baby is starting to roll, you've probably got lots of questions. Are you...
One Syllable Boy Names for Modern Little Dudes
Let's find the perfect single syllable name for your baby boy... On the hunt for a modern boy's name that sounds cool but isn't over-done? This list of one syllable boy names is just what you're looking for! One syllable boy...
The Ultimate Second Trimester Checklist for First Time Moms
Everything to take care of during your 2nd trimester of pregnancy YAY! You've made it through the scariest part of your pregnancy, the doubt-filled first trimester. Now that you're in your second trimester, it starts to get...
200 Cool + Modern Girl Names You’re Going to Love
Let's find the perfect modern name for your baby girl... It's a challenge to choose an 'on trend' baby name that will also stand the test of time. Thankfully, there are plenty of great options! Let's delve right in and check out these adorable...
Are Nested Bean Sleep Sacks Safe?
Sleep-deprived parents want to know: "Is it safe for my baby to sleep in a weighted sleep sack?" Transitioning out of the swaddle is notoriously difficult. Babies prefer the feeling of compression they grew accustomed to in the womb. When you take...
Boho Baby Shower Decor {DIY a Stunning Party!}
If you're throwing a boho-themed baby shower, this post is for you... Scrolling through Pinterest and Instagram is great for boho baby shower inspiration... But, unless you're planning to hire a party planner ($$$$$), it's up to you to scout out...
250 Hippie Names for your Boho Baby
The best artsy earthy hippie baby names — plus their meanings — and middle name ideas! Whether you're looking for a groovy 60s and 70s vibe, or a modern boho baby name, you're in the right place! This enormous list of hippie names...
How to Store a Mamaroo | The Definitive Guide
Tips for storing a 4moms Mamaroo swing for your next baby Let me guess... your baby's things are taking over your home and you're running out of space. It's unbelievable how much stuff our tiny people have! When your little one hits the age,...
Sleeping in a Mamaroo Swing: Is it Safe for Your Baby?
"Can my baby sleep in a Mamaroo?" is a common question asked by sleep deprived parents... If you're here reading this article, you probably have at least an inkling that the Mamaroo seat is not safe for infant sleep. You're...
Are Memory Foam Crib Mattresses Safe?
What do the experts have to say about the safety of memory foam mattresses for infant sleep? If you're confused about which baby mattress to get, you're not alone! In the 'Wild West' of unregulated infant sleep products, it's really difficult to...
Middle Names for Aden: 100+ Ideas for a Modern Little Person
Choosing the perfect middle name for Aden... I'm so glad we went with the name Aden for our little boy! It makes me happy every time I see it in writing. "Aden" means "little fire", which is adorable. Its more common spellings are...
75 Handsome Middle Names for Grayson You’ll Swoon Over
Choosing the perfect middle name for Grayson... Your world is about to be anything but gray when you welcome your baby boy! And thankfully, if you've chosen the first name Grayson or Greyson, you're already off to a colorful start!...
99 Magical Middle Names for Aubrey (plus meanings!)
Choosing the perfect middle name for Aubrey... If you've decided to name your baby girl Aubrey, congratulations on picking a magical name...literally! Aubrey is a fantastical girl's name that means "leader of the elves". So...
100 Middle Names for Theo | Modern + Classic Ideas!
Choosing the perfect middle name for Theo or Theodore... Everything old is new again! Especially when it comes to the classic first name, Theodore. The best thing about this name is its adorable nickname, Theo, which makes a...
65 Middle Names for Carter You’re Going to Love
Choosing the perfect middle name for Carter... If you've decided to name your baby boy Carter, congratulations on picking a trendy yet classic C name! Carter means "transporter of goods by cart" and is the 30th most popular baby...
The 66 Prettiest Middle Names for Piper
Choosing the perfect middle name for Piper... If you've decided to name your baby girl Piper, congratulations on picking a lovely happy-go-lucky name! Piper means pipe or flute player, which is especially cute if you happen to be a...
100 Magnificent Middle Names for Madelyn
Choosing the perfect middle name for Madelyn... If you've decided to name your baby girl Madelyn, you've chosen a beautiful name! This lovely long girl's name is right in the sweet spot of being familiar without being overdone....
60 Stunning Middle Names for Hadley — Plus Meanings!
Choosing the perfect middle name for Hadley... If you've decided to name your baby girl Hadley, congratulations on picking a worldly, modern, yet rustic-sounding name! Hadley is the 112th most popular baby girl's name in the U.S., according to the...
72 Middle Names for Hailey You’re Going to Love
Choosing the perfect middle name for Hailey... If you've decided to name your baby girl Hailey, congratulations on picking a charming, rustic-sounding name! Hailey means hay clearing is the 75th most popular baby girl's name in the...
The 100 Sweetest Middle Names for Reese (Plus Meanings!)
Choosing the perfect middle name for Reese... If you've decided to name your baby Reese, congratulations on picking a sweet gender-neutral name with a fiery meaning! Reese is the 157th most popular baby girl's name and the 758th most popular baby...
125 Trendy Middle Names for Avery — Plus Meanings!
Choosing the perfect middle name for Avery... If you've decided to name your baby Avery, congratulations on picking a gender-neutral name with a magical meaning! Avery is the 18th most popular baby girl's name and the 204th most...
Snuggle Me Safety: The Evidence-Based Guide
Is it safe to let your baby sleep in a "Snuggle Me Organic" lounger? Your instagram feed says "yes". But what about the science? Does the evidence say that using a lounger, nest, or pod increases the chance of a sleep-related death? What if you're...
Keekaroo Peanut Changer Review from a Real Mom
Wondering if the Keekaroo changing pad is worth it? I’m picky. There are very few baby products that I would “10/10 recommend” to a fellow parent. I often find myself curious to try another product, simply because I don't LOVE the one I'm using....
When Can Baby Sleep with a Lovey?
Ahead: What the evidence has to say about when babies can safely sleep with a lovey Keeping your baby safe during sleep does NOT fall into the "you do you, mama" category. SIDS is the leading cause of death in healthy, full-term infants. And guess...
How Long Can a Baby Sleep in a Bassinet?
Are you planning where your newborn will sleep and wondering how long you can use a bassinet? Whether you're currently expecting, or already in the thick of the 4th trimester, you're probably wondering how long your baby can sleep...
Bassinet vs Pack N Play: The Ultimate Guide to Help you Decide
How to pick between a bassinet and a Pack 'n Play for your baby If you're like most parents-to-be, you're completely overwhelmed by the abundance of choices for infant sleep spaces. Playards and bassinets are both great options....
CoSleepers Attached to a Bed: Safe or Unsafe?
Is a cosleeper attached to your bed safe for your baby—or are there better options? When it comes to selecting a safe sleep space for your precious baby, you can’t be too careful. “Your baby usually will be unattended when in his or her crib, so...
35 Things to do Before Baby (while lying in bed!)
Tired and huge? Here’s a list of things to do before baby comes that you can tackle from the comfort of your bed or couch! You’re very pregnant, you have a million “to dos” swirling around in your brain, but all you can think about is how comfy...
Flying with an Infant During the Pandemic: A Real Mom’s Tips
What to expect and how to prepare for flying with your baby during the COVID-19 pandemic It's October of 2020 and I just took two cross-country flights with my 11-month old baby. Get ready, because I'm about to give you all of my...
10 Tips for Baby’s First Birthday Party
We recently threw Aden a successful (mini) first birthday party during the pandemic! I hosted the party at my grandmother's beautiful condo during our trip to Long Island. Due to the pandemic, we only had immediate family attend. It was a simple,...
Intro to Safe Sleep + Preventing SIDS
Welcome to Safe Sleep 101 This post is a beginner-friendly introduction to safe sleep. Links to evidence and more in-depth discussions are provided underneath each section. Why this matters Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is...
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The Best Crib Sheets for Every Nursery Theme [Roundup]
100+ of the best fitted crib sheets you can buy for your baby's room! Scrolling through endless sites to find the best crib sheets for your baby's nursery can take forever. There are so many not-so-cute options out there. That's why I've rounded up...
The ABC’s of Safe Sleep: How To Protect Your Baby From SIDS
Let's talk about how you can reduce the risk of SIDS by following the ABCs of safe sleep. Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is the leading cause of death for healthy, full-term babies. When you're a new or expectant parent, this...
12 Uncommon Baby Registry Items (That are Extremely Useful)
Ahead: Lesser known items you've never seen on a baby registry list. If you’ve started your baby registry, chances are, you’ve already got the basics covered: diapers, wipes, clothing, bottles, etc. Get excited because the list you're about to see...
3 Things I Can’t Believe I Didn’t Know About Safe Sleep
I had never even heard the term "safe sleep" until I was about five months pregnant. All I knew was that there was a scary monster out there called SIDS. I largely assumed that sleep-related infant death was just a random freak...